Welcome to Ernica Mediation & Coaching

Borders may fade, but conflicts remain part of human life. As an ADR Registered Mediator (Full Level) and MfN-accredited mediator, I guide you towards lasting solutions – respectful, clear, and future-oriented.

Specialist in international and complex situations


Whether you live in the Netherlands or abroad, as an expat or in an international relationship: cultural differences, distance, and language barriers can intensify tensions. I help you bridge these challenges, with attention to both the practical and emotional aspects of conflict.

My areas of expertise

  • (High-conflict) divorce & family mediation – From divorce settlements to parenting plans, with attention to every voice, including that of the children.
  • International expat disputes – Including cross-border divorces and family conflicts, in Dutch, English, and German.
  • Workplace mediation – Restoring working relationships or guiding a respectful separation, including within international teams.

Approach

I work on location and online – flexible, discreet, and always tailored to your situation. With clear agreements on time and costs, so you know exactly what to expect.

Working together towards a solution

Conflicts require more than just a legal answer. They need dialogue, insight, and mutual understanding. At Ernica Mediation & Coaching, you will find a neutral, experienced, and committed mediator who understands your interests – and those of the other party.

📞 Contact me today to discover how mediation can make the difference

 

Familymediation

Resolving conflicts within families

International expat mediation

Resolve international conflicts

Workplace mediation

Resolving conflicts in the workplace

Coaching at Ernica Mediation & Coaching

Coaching helps you gain more balance, direction and control in your personal and professional life. Whether it's about communication, reintegration, relationships or corporate coaching, every programme is tailored and focused on lasting results.

Together, we explore what holds you back and what opportunities you have. Through targeted questions and reflection, you discover your own solutions and insights, making changes sustainable and effective. Every programme is tailored to your goals, situation and personal preferences — in person or online, in Dutch, English or German.

Specialisations (brief overview)

  • Communication coaching: more effective communication and better collaboration
  • Reintegration coaching: return to work and sustainable employability
  • Relationship coaching: strengthening personal and professional relationships
  • Corporate coaching: guiding teams and organisations through development and change

Goal: greater clarity, control and resilience, both personally and professionally.

📞 Get in touch today and discover how coaching can make all the difference.

Communication

Discover how to communicate more effectively and understand each other better.

Reintegration

Support in returning to work and step-by-step strengthening of your resilience.

Relationships

Improve connection and collaboration in personal and professional relationships.

Corporatecoaching

Develop teams, leaders and organisational processes effectively and constructively.

Caroline Oudakker
Caroline OudakkerMediator & Coach
+31 (0)653 68 41 26

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